Are you sure you're referring to the control on the subform correctly? Suppose you had a form called frmMyMainForm and a subform called sfrMySubForm. On the subform you had a textbox called txtMyTextBox. Then on the button's On Click event, setting the focus would look something like this.
Button is on the main form:
Button is on the subform:
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