A valuable piece of advice, posting your email address on forums will cause a great deal of unsolicited emails to flood your inbox. When somebody posts you a solution, it is best sitting on the forum for others to benefit.
I suggest you contact your host to see what mail method they prefer you use. look up CDONTS - it's nice simple code Eg:
Set MailObj = Server.CreateObject("CDONTS.NewMail")
MailObj.From = "senderAddress@..."
MailObj.To = "recipient@..."
MailObj.Subject = "someText"
MailObj.Body = "mail body"
MailObj.Host = "host IP Address"
MailObj.Importance = 2
Set MailObj = Nothing
Wind is your friend