Snib,
No it really does not matter what language you use on the server side for the purpose of sending an email, Im sure it can be sone in most server side languages.
The below example shows how easy it can be with asp and VBScript.
http://www.powerasp.com/content/hintstips/asp-email.asp
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They say, best men are moulded out of faults,
And, for the most, become much more the better
For being a little bad.
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