OMG I actually was able to find the required information to fix this. I am passing along so if anyone else encounters this.
The solution came from searching archives, one particularly koflerappache. Evidentally what the pkg installers does not do is set the httpd configuration for PHP automatically. I made the following changes to my httpd.conf file (Note use the path to your modules) and restarted Apache2 and the script worked correctly to show me my PHPINFO.
change Apache's httpd.conf to make it use PHP
adds the following line to /usr/local/apache2/conf/httpd.conf:
LoadModule php5_module modules/libphp5.so
however, you have to add another line:
AddType application/x-httpd-php .php
To test it:
restart Apache
/usr/local/apache2/bin/apachectl start
/usr/local/apache2/bin/apachectl stop
create the file
/usr/local/apache2/htdocs/test.php
with this content
<?php phpinfo(); ?>
load the page with your web browser
http://localhost/test.php